A note of advice to all the ladies out there, when looking for a potential 'someone' to spend the rest of your life with. Be wary of non dish washing or somewhat lacking in domestic chores men. If you happen to be seeing someone, who has never ever offered to do the dishes on his own free will, ever. Then you must run the opposite direction, lest you are willing to spend the rest of your life in servitute.
I once heard this line from somewhere, most probably from the endless gut of the wide wide internet, that it will always be the little things that will eventually get to you. And when i mean; get to you, it really just means, drive you to the edge of the very edge. And i did not heed that advice, much to my current dismay.
I once had a conversation with this lady, who was old enough to be my mum, and yet i was old enough to have her daughter. So you roughly could guess the age gap. She asked me about my husband, and we were having a pretty interesting conversation about men, and marriage... well, the start of it. And then she suddenly made a loud exclamation, 'That, my dear... is a typical china-man husband, my ex husband was exactly like that'. Her statment gave me goosebumps, and at the same time a mist lifted from my eyes.
So heed my advice, single ladies out there. When you meet a man who does not do dishes. Run far far away. Or buy the next plane ticket and fly outta there before you get reeled in. Or else, you will be stuck with an annoyance, for the rest of your life. It will not be like the kind of regret, say... when you buy your favorite car but in the wrong color. And it haunts you for the rest of your life. Rather, it will be like, when you have your favorite car, in your favorite color, who runs perfectly and never lets you down... unless... when you have to turn on the wipers, and that annoying squeaking wiping sound it makes, just annoys the hell out of you. That my dear, is what you will be stuck with.. for life.